TEDxUW – Tanya De Mello – Here’s how you get a job at the UN

TEDxUW – Tanya De Mello – Here’s how you get a job at the UN

Translator: Deborah Oliveira
Reviewer: Denise RQ Whenever people find out
that I have worked in the United Nations and I have worked in war-torn countries,
with refugees all over the world, the first question they want to know is, “How did you end up at the UN? Tell me how to get there. I am dying to get there,
just give me a tip.” So that is what I am here
to talk about to you today. Not exactly how to end up at the UN, but how you can end up doing
what you were meant to do, what you want to do,
and what you should be doing. But before I can answer that, when people ask me
how I ended up at the UN, I need to tell them why I ended up there,
why I do the work that I do, why I want to work with people in emergency
and in devastating situations. So I start with this story: when I was a little kid, my mother
took my brother and I to a musical. Our family didn’t have a lot of money, so this was a really big deal. It was “Les Misérables.” And I remember the costumes,
the singing, and the theater. It was the most exciting night of my life. My brother and I were like
little kids on Christmas Eve: we were giggling, singing,
and fidgeting in our seats. I remember that, at the end of the night,
it was a really cold January night, we sort of giddily darted off to our car
to get in to go home. And we turned around, and my mom
was just sauntering across the parking lot nice and slowly. So we started yelling, “Hurry up,
hurry up! Let us in, we’re cold!” When she finally got to the car, she looks
at us and says, “What’s the problem?” We said, “Mom, it’s January,
we are cold, open up the door!” She said, “Are you cold?” We said, “Yeah,
we’re freezing, let us in!” She looked at us, and she said, “Can you imagine that somebody
has to sleep outside tonight?” And it just hit me like a ton of bricks. I couldn’t believe that I’d been singing,
dancing, and having the time of my life, while somebody
was braving that winter cold. I think that is why I do the work I do. Because I cannot reconcile that I have
such a good life and so much fortune, while people right beside me,
not in some far-off country, are struggling so much. When people ask me
how do I get a job at the UN, I tell them to worry less
about getting a job at the UN, and to do those small things
that have meaning in your life, because even if you don’t end up
at the UN, you’ll be making
a really meaningful contribution. So that is my first tip: do something. While the idea of going off
to another country traipsing around and saving the world
is something that we romanticize, most of us can’t really do that. I am always surprised when we talk about
people like Mother Teresa, a woman who literally
picked children up out of gutters right before they were dying. We are all so inspired and so moved, but none of us can really imagine
doing that for our whole lives. So what do we do? We make her a saint, and because we can’t do
everything she does, we do nothing. I think that is our biggest problem: because we can’t do everything,
we do nothing at all. So I guess my first tip
is to do something, something small and meaningful
in your community; and I can promise you,
it’ll turn into something bigger. My favorite example of this is of the Secretary General
of Doctors Without Borders. Her name is Marine Buissonniere. When I first met her, this woman wowed me. She was bright, she was
full of character and personality, she was extremely effective, and she was the fiercest and most
passionate advocate I’ve ever met. We became friends,
and after a little while, I had to ask the proverbial question, “How do you end up a secretary-general
of Doctors Without Borders?” So she told me her story. She said that, when she was young
and living in France, she got a little restless, so she decided
she would try something new. She traveled to China, she liked it,
it was something different and fun, and eventually, she opened
a small little pastry shop, where she would sell French pastries
and breads to local people. She was happy living
in this little community. She learned fluent Mandarin
and was living a happy life. One day, a young boy from a group
of street youth came to speak to her. He asked her if she wouldn’t mind
at the end of the day, if there were a couple of pieces
of bread or pastries left, if some of the boys that were
street youth could have them. Marine stopped. She knew that, if she said yes that day, she would have to give these boys
what was left over everyday. But she did it. At first, she started giving them
what was left over at the end of the day, but within a few weeks, she decided she could maybe make
a couple of extra sandwiches for them. She got to know them better,
and one night she said, “I wouldn’t mind if you slept
under the stoop of my store at night, because nobody is there anyways,
it wouldn’t bother me.” Then, within a few weeks, she decided they could sleep inside the store,
because no one was using it at night. As she got to know them better, she realized they had never done
anything wrong, they just had really difficult pasts
and bad fortune. So what she wanted to do
was get them some sort of small apartment that they could maybe stay in
in the evenings. She went to all the local organizations
in the community to see if she could get some funding. One of them was Doctors Without Borders. Now, they didn’t have funds to give her, but they were so moved by her passion
and her love for these kids, they thought they could
find her something else. They happened to need someone who spoke
fluent French and fluent Mandarin to help them with some of the emergency needs
that they had in the community. Marine started working with them,
and 12 years later when I met her, she was the Secretary General
of Doctors Without Borders. She didn’t get there by potting her resume
with all of these impressive achievements. She just did something small,
and more importantly, she did something that she loved. That brings me to my second tip:
contribute in your own way. Nobody else’s but yours. I am so saddened nowadays when I see
that the way we’re training young people is to follow some calculated recipe that will lead to this inevitable
and wonderful end goal. Somebody says they want to go
to med school, we say, “Well, start tutoring
or volunteer in your local hospital. Do whatever you can so they know
you are really excited about doing it.” And I think these are all great things and they do end up getting you
to that end goal, but sometimes I worry about
that when you get to that end goal, you might find out it wasn’t
what you really wanted in the first place. Larry Smith, who will be speaking later and is one of my favorite professors
at the University of Waterloo, said something to me that changed my life. He said, “You better love what you do, because I guarantee you cannot compete
with the person beside you that reads about business trends,
or health statistics, or human resources on their weekends
in their leisure time for fun.” A few years later, I am sitting with my best friend
on the side of a lake. It is really quiet, we are on vacation. He is in Human Resources. He pulls out of his backpack this magazine and starts droning on and on to me
about the wonders of e-recruiting. I literally couldn’t believe it. He was reading about his career
in Human Resources on the weekend for fun. So here is how you contribute
in your own way: you find what you love doing,
what you are good at, and you use that to contribute
to your community. Here is another example I love. You have all heard
about Doctors Without Borders, most of us know that organization. How many of you have heard about
the organization Clowns Without Borders? I swear to you this exists. It is a group of people in North America
that go to war-torn countries, into refugee camps,
and literally serve as clowns. Having worked in these areas, when I first heard about
this organization, I was baffled. All I could think was, “What these people need
is food and shelter. They don’t need clowns
traipsing into their community.” And then I read and learned more
about what they do. One of the things that struck me the most
when I worked in these countries and areas was working with malnourished children. When kids are so malnourished,
when they are that malnourished, they don’t have energy or any vitality. And no matter what you do, you can’t get
a reaction out of these kids. So you tickle them,
you take them on plane rides, you tell jokes, you act crazy, and you cannot get children
who are that malnourished to laugh. And these clowns come in,
they put on a red nose, and they bring laughter
into these communities. And more than that,
when you look at the results, you learn that they’re building
self-esteem in children, they are involving children in theater,
getting them to speak. They are building community,
and if nothing else, for a few short moments,
they are bringing laughter. So that is what I say:
that if you can start somewhere and contribute in your own way,
it will make a difference. My third tip is,
that in order to do all of this, you need to make sincere connections
to people, to the community, to the Earth. I think that most people
that are here today want to dedicate some of their time
to doing something, but don’t really know where to start
or how to get started. And so I say: pick something that you are
genuinely connected to, and it’ll grow. Here is my story. When I was an undergrad
at the University of Waterloo, I was part of an organization
called Habitat for Humanity. So what we do is, on the weekends
every once in a while, we would go and help to build homes
for people who couldn’t afford them. And I have to tell you while I loved the concept of putting
a house up that somebody could live in, the best part was
the amazing people that I met. So this group of people decided we would participate
in a collegiate build. The collegiate build
is when students decide that instead of going crazy
on March break in some exotic area, they’re actually going to commit
to a week of service. Our group went to New Orleans. We spent a week building houses,
having fun, working really, really hard, but most importantly,
when we were down there, we were allowed to build with the people
that would actually live in those houses. We got to know them, hear their stories,
and I’d say, become friends. Ten years later, I’m starting my Master’s
in International Development at Princeton. I’m so excited, I feel like a little kid
in a candy shop again. And I’m there at the orientation meeting
with all of these amazing people, and Hurricane Katrina hits the Gulf Coast
and devastates New Orleans. I remember watching the images on TV
of people that I had met, people that I felt I knew,
literally drowning. Once again, I couldn’t reconcile the fact
that I was running off to picnics, meeting all these great people,
staying up all night, and people in the country I was living
were literally dying right beside me. And I decided I had to do something. I couldn’t give up my Master’s,
but I knew I could give a week. So during my break at school,
I decided I would go down there. A bunch of students found out I was going
and decided they would come with me. We didn’t really know
what we were going to do, but we knew we could give our hands. So we get down there all excited and at first, we are kind of just
twiddling our thumbs. We start working
in some local soup kitchens and asking around saying that we are
energetic and excited to work. When people see that we are serious,
they start to give us tasks. Before we know, we are helping people
clean out their flooded homes, we set up a makeshift Medical Center,
we worked heavily in a soup kitchen, and we were handing out blankets and food. A local organization noticed us and asked us if we could conduct
surveys of the survivors. So we went around and asked dozens of survivors
what it was that they needed most, and we went to their local governments
and asked them to provide those needs. One woman saw the work I was doing, and she came up to me and asked me
what organization I was with. I said, “I’m just a student.
I’m only here for a week.” We started talking, and she said that she was moved by my passion
and my ability to organize, and that she could see me
as somebody working in emergency relief. I didn’t even know that was a career. And a year later, I found myself
at the United Nations, not really knowing how I got there. So I can’t tell you
how to get a job at the UN, but I can give you three tips
to do meaningful work. The first is to do something. The second is to contribute
in your own way. And the third, and I think most important,
is to make sincere connections. I want to end by sharing
the most important lesson I’ve learned. I think it’s going to surprise you. In a lot of these talks,
and including the stories I’ve given, we talk about people
that started with these little things, and they all became these grand endeavors, but I actually think the little things
are the ends in themselves. And I think that what is important
is that no matter where it ends up, if you do something meaningful,
it will matter. I know how busy you are as students, and I know how right now and most times,
you feel pulled in a million directions, but you will never be less busy
than you are today, I promise you. You will have jobs, you’ll have families,
you will have pets, houses, and cars, and so many things that will be pulling you
in a million more directions. So whatever you’re going to do,
big or small, it needs to be today. You know that best friend
I told you about in Human Resources? Many years ago, when I was working
at Covenant House Shelter, he came to see
some of the work I was doing. He was so inspired
I could work with street youth, and by the work that the shelter does,
but he said it just wasn’t him; he didn’t know if he’d feel comfortable,
or if he’d say the wrong thing, it just didn’t seem like his environment. But soon enough, he came more and more, and about once a month,
he started running a class for the youth. He taught them how to write resumes,
he taught them how to interview, he taught them
how to get jobs in the city. He used his skills in human resources
to help in that situation. And years after I left Covenant House,
he was still working there. It’s now ten years later, and my friend helps people
in organizations all over Toronto: new immigrants, elderly people,
people with very little means to write better resumes,
to interview better so that they can work
to feed their families. He didn’t leave his full-time job, it’s just something he does
every once in a while when he has time. When I started working for the UN,
I had these big visions. I thought I’d be in a plane dropping
packages of food onto people who needed or at some big, amazing negotiating table
as the lead ambassador, but I don’t think
that my future is at the UN. Turns out my mom got sick,
and my dad got much older, and all of a sudden, I find myself
wanting kids and a family, and wanting to have roots
for the first time. I see my future in Toronto today. I know that,
even if I don’t end up at the UN, I will find some small way to make
a contribution to my community. It may not make it
on the front page of the paper, but I promise you that it’ll matter. Let me ask you this: if I could give you all
half an hour more this week, but I said to you that you have
to use that half an hour to help somebody else or to help
something you’re passionate about – the environment or animals –
if I told you you could use it to write a letter to your grandma,
to help somebody struggling in school, to teach a kid in your neighborhood
how to play basketball, what would you do? What would you do if I told you
that you could never put it on your resume and you could never tell
anybody else that you did it? What would you do that has meaning to you? I challenge you to do that this week. Actually, I challenge you to do it today. And I promise you that if you do,
that step will make the difference. In fact, it was Mother Teresa who said, “Do not try to do great things.
Just do small things with great love.” Thank you. (Applause)

Comments (100)

  1. She is amazing! I totally agree with what she said. I also came to work for an international environmental organization…not knowing how I got here. I just did, what I was passionate about!

  2. Knowing how the international organisations all over the world work (including the UN) I think this is what she calls romanticism, because someone can have all that it takes to have to be in an organisation, but doesn't have the formal credentials for the job. While most of what she says are good and make the definition of a good person and not a person who wants to work in the UN, are not enough and are an illusion for a young graduate. She is a graduate from Princeton, which I congratulate, because it is not easy, but that speak out in someone's CV.

  3. She graduated from University of Waterloo and landed on UN. But what I can do? I am from Bangladesh and graduated from local university. So I see very little hope to get a job in UN. Ted talk is good good but reality is different (my opinion).

  4. wow she just deposited something in me today. i usually think of being this great person in the future and doing great things while there are very much small important things to do. Wow! i wish to be able to do small things as such that will impact the lives of the unprivileged. Thanks.

  5. Her advice is very simple, get US passport, so you can visit any conflict area to volunteer for few weeks, then go back study in Waterloo and Princeton. You end up a UN officer. Most important don't be fooled with humanitarian ideals.

  6. Im not here to tell you how to work in UN, Im here to tell you how to have meaningfull life

  7. For me she is a model, but i think our reality are very different

  8. Man I really needed to hear those words. Thanks

  9. Inspiring speech, however from what I know the good and great UN cause most of the chaos in places they are working in, they send Kenyan troops to Somalia which appears only after conflict ends and then report about how they wonderfully ended it without any injuries or they smuggle weapons, so that they don't lose their money resort or rape women who come to them for help….. This is the horrible things you hear from the locals if you actually listen closely

  10. that was really inspiring. thank you

  11. Truly inspiring speech!!!

  12. One of the most inspiring talks I've encountered on TED. This has successfully affect me so deeply.. Truly widens my horizon a lot farther.. Thank you Tanya De Mello.

  13. So can I refer your name in my resume ? I need a monster like you ! help.

  14. Just came across this whilst browsing for something else, very inspiring talk.  Thank you Tanya.

  15. Very inspiring stories. Touched my heart

  16. I have been wanting to work for the UN and this lovely lady has helped me figure out a game plan!! YESSSS

  17. Wow Amazing thank you. 🙂 So very true. Real true 🙂

  18. contributions to humanity

  19. can I be offered the same chance as Tedd?I desire very crazily to be like Ted's.Please encourage me.

  20. While she makes good points, she doesn't answer the actual questions. More than 90% of the time, you need to have an internal contact to get anywhere in the Govt or even the UN. It would have been more accurate if she was straight forward instead of a 'motivational speaker' blurb.

  21. what a crap of the world….i was an intern in WHO i applied for 40 jobs since 2013 and i was rejected in all, starting from a senior managerial post to an office assistant….UN is the most corrupt organisation in the whole world as i got to know how my superior was extracting dollars from Poorest African countries by just doing some crap workshops….

    yes u can get a job in UN if you have some very good connections or ur country is like of this lady eg USA, UK, GERMANY, FRANCE etc….forget if ur from INDIA….

    Plus there is a huge racial discrimination in the work place in the HQ i have experienced the same…….its a shame when this happens to coloured ppl from Poor countries like India…

  22. U can only get a UN job if… you have connections! I am sad to say this is the truth. This lady did not say what parents do or her relatives. I don't buy the bs of good deeds.

  23. Most of us don't have the money to go to Princeton. I know more people without degrees who are more qualified than these educated fools.

  24. YOU SUCK! Whoever booked you needs to be fired. Also, that dress looks terrible.

  25. this was amazing.

  26. It amazing and I am full of emotion. Humanitarian assistance and a committement to eradicate poverty must be the mains requirements when one is looking for UN vacancies jobs and not any recipe that can be earned.

  27. Is has never been about the job at the UN, it has never been about getting public recognition, it is about making this wounded world better.

    You don't need a recommendation, or a master degree for that purpose the only thing that you require is yourself.

    Even though you are from Bangladesh and have graduated from a local University, you are definitely not insignificant.

  28. I mean, sure, but people do need jobs to eat or pay their student loans. I have done too much and I still don´thave a job. Thank you for your nice story.






  34. "Here's how to get a job at the UN"
    "I can't really tell you how to get a job at the UN"

    nice speech anyway

  35. Amazing !!! So inspirational Tanya, Thank you 🙂 and best of luck to you!

  36. This video is not for me

  37. This is one of the most inspiring talks I heard in Tedx. I also liked how you delivered it from small notes.
    Thanks Tanya.

  38. "Do something. Something small and meaningful, and I promise you it will turn into something bigger." Love this and so true

  39. Well I say u should have a balance life u should respect the time and near the lake one should drink a coffe and enjoy not doing ur favorite work either

  40. To divert funds to the 1% and bureaucracy duhhhh

  41. Maybe the problem is all this emphasis and training on middle management positions. Or telling people they need to waist time energy on top of going into debt without recieving applicable skills and pratical job opportunities in return. The man makes the suit the suit does not make the man!!

  42. All of you who are complaining or saying this is a "waste of time" completely missed the point! sure, this won't help you actually get into the UN, but if you take her actual MESSAGE to heart you can still do great things! maybe not at the UN level, but you can still live a meaningful life and make an actual difference in the world. I can't believe so many people are missing the point.

  43. All of you who are complaining or saying this is a "waste of time" completely missed the point! sure, this won't help you actually get into the UN, but if you take her actual MESSAGE to heart you can still do great things! maybe not at the UN level, but you can still live a meaningful life and make an actual difference in the world. I can't believe so many people are missing the point.

  44. This video is basically upsetting people who want to study x,y and z to get to the UN. She gave the answer, without saying that was the answer: work on the ground to help people and develop the practical skills that will make the UN OFFER you a job.

  45. Great speech Tanya.

  46. Best words 👏🏽

  47. the start with WHY by Simon Sinek

  48. i did the test, passed the interview, and now im a UN staff level p1.

  49. I want a job that consist with helping the Syrian people but I'm so lost as to where to start and what degree to get. Ive spent the past year studying the situation but considering that there are so many wars  I dont know if I could go there. I'm going to college in a few months and I have no idea what to do. i want to help medically or maybe politically but how?? I wish I had someone to communicate with

  50. It is high time to empower women to have equal opportunities in contributing to the development of natiins

  51. Excellent video! Thank you for this inspiring speech of yours. God bless her

  52. I enjoy with more pleasure the TANYA DE MELLO's exposure explaining how to get the job at UN facts examples were at stake to justify her milestone passage

  53. SHE IS TALKING B.S . Please try to be practical in your video . !!!!!!! I am boiled right now .

  54. is this really important where did she study? can't you hear the message? it's about just doing something no matter who you are

  55. My dear lady,do you really wish you could do everything Mother Theresa did?

  56. Hi, i need to be part of this organisation , what to do next ?

  57. These r exceptional examples ,

  58. Clowns without borders are so impressive. Wonderful people

  59. O my God !
    Her heart is so beautiful !!😭😭
    It's a push in the direction I am going.
    God bless her.

  60. I dont understand. How to join UN. Where to apply, Where will they place us?? These are the questions to be answered as opposed to some fake stories. Waste of time.

  61. Seriously!! Come on. How do I join UN???????? How does this connect?????

  62. wow i feel god gave me a solution i wanna see the life of peoples change wanna find happiness in it but money is big thing but contributing what i have can except great things in future

  63. “You will never be less busy than you are today.”

  64. What an amazing, inspiring, authentic character. Loved this Ted talk!

  65. I have felt like I have lost my way for a while, lost my passion for starting a career in the third sector because it seems so difficult. Thank you for reigniting my passion, though our contributions may seem small, the ripples that are felt as a result of our kindness and actions will be felt far and wide. It doesn't matter if we help one person or 100, it doesn't matter if you work for the UN or not. Our legacies consitent of the kindness we leave behind. Thank you.

  66. with all that has been said this company is part of a whole and today to keep it clean you have to be part of a team    WHERE DO I SIGN UP?! cmca

  67. Dunno why i'm crying

  68. People need to understand that this isn't a "how to" video regardless of what the title says. This is a Ted Talk and it's meant to insipre us to be better and if you actually listened you would know that she's trying to explain that making it into the U.N shouldn't be your motivation, it should be what happens after you make your difference no matter how small and in what way and even if you don't end up in the U.N it shouldn't matter.

  69. I work for the UN and believe me it is not a big deal, the trick is to work for NGOs first, somehow get into humanitarian sector and then jump into UN. HQ locations are harder to get in at first place and field experience is vital. If you sacrifice from your luxury you can easily end up in the UN. Most importantly a relevant work experience with a university degree is precondition. You need to have a perfect English and preferably other UN languages are asset. good luck

  70. LOVE THIS. Thank you Tanya.

  71. One of the best TALKS

  72. What an amazing lecture !!! Thank You 🙂

  73. God must be proud of her

  74. Such a good and honest inspiration. Thank you, I think I saw this video in the right moment when I needed to hear such words.

  75. Two years later i'm coming back to say that I've just understand what she meant by saying ''do it on your own way''. Till now i didn't get into the UN but i have meaningful life, i'm with peacekeeping once again, as policeman in Central African Republic.
    We help the refugee in the UN camps. in Bria and we extremely effective because these refugees are in a very big Ordeal.
    And we do it in our way.

  76. Why is the UN attracting the laziest group of people from all over the world if I had a penny for every time I read "can someone please call me and give me a job at the UN please I really need a free job at the UN call me email me."I know poop cleaners who are more hardworking, do you know how many interviews and applications a bartender has to submit before they can get a job or even an interview but you guys want somebody to pick up the phone say, "hey you've been offered a job at the UN!" After little or no work what a lazy bunch.

  77. There is nothing said about the recruiting process. You will get closer to getting a job at UN if you see 2 and a half men as opposed to this video

  78. All of you who are saying great video, have no clue about how recruiting works. LOL

  79. Contribute in your own way…

  80. Dear sweetheart welcome

  81. And so my bucket list grows

  82. The concept is really amazing.mainstreaming women and gender equality is the need of hour.I am seriously interested to join UN Women in the traditional state Rajasthan in India. Please let me know how can I join you.

  83. “Do not try to do great things , just do small things with great love” ❤️

  84. What a beautiful heart

  85. I love love love her, doing this job for all the right reasons

  86. Wow!!! Amazing talk!!!

  87. Why recruit UN Volunteers?

    United Nations Volunteers are global citizens motivated

    to contribute to peace and sustainable development.

    Working with United Nations entities, governments, civil

    society and the private sector, UN Volunteers use their

    experience and talent to bring people to the forefront of

    development and give them a voice.

    UN Volunteers are one of the talent-management

    solutions available to the UN system. UNV manages

    this cost-effective talent pool of volunteers who can be

    deployed to work in synergy with the staff and personnel

    of United Nations entities to bolster the effective delivery

    of their programmes and mandates.

    UN Volunteers are particularly suited to support

    UNHCR’s mandate. UN Volunteers contribute to the

    UNHCR goal of refugee protection and humanitarian

    assistance. UN Volunteers work within camps on

    refugee status determination, registration, repatriation,

    resettlement, protection and family reunification.

    UN Volunteers, by the very nature of volunteerism’s

    inclusiveness, advance UNHCR’s efforts to support and

    protect refugees and internally displaced people.

  88. This is so inspiring on so many levels, thank you so much for giving this amazing talk.

  89. this is what I've been thinking for a long time! her speech helped my thoughts organized. thank you for sharing!

  90. Some times its not about 'just wanting', you need a good education and good money – and u went to Princeton – so that says a lot about your UN journey.

  91. The UN is a global body which has helped so many suffering people globally including children, women and war torn countries in the world. UN is like a mother in the world.

  92. this was amazing I'm really moved and motivated now

  93. Most cant do this? she says but reality many of us could if we choose to make it a goal & strive for it. Start with education humanites degree there was volenteer plus it pays a liilte money for college & a little living expensies its a year or two program commitment one organization i couldnt remember is old & big it some how one of the Kennedy family favorites i could find it on the internet

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